What it basically boils down to is that my kid is a genius. Ha! Not really, but Miss Mary did emphasize that Ava is really smart. I do think Ava is smart, but she also does have the advantage of being one of the oldest kids in her class (the November birthday thing). Of course it's nice to hear, though! She also said Ava would probably do fine in Kindegarten next year if that were an option (it isn't). The September 1 rule is pretty solid around here - I did check awhile ago to see if they granted any exceptions - you are able to file for early admission in our school district, but even then the child's birthday needs to be before October 15th. So, any way you look at it, she is not eligible to start next year. Which I really do think is fine - it's kind of nice to not have to make the decision. I would hate to put her through early and then have her struggle. We have signed her up for the same preschool next year and she will go 3 days a week instead of 2.
Miss Mary started off the conference by reviewing some of the competencies they "graded" in the fall and compared them to how they are doing now.
Some of the comments from the fall were:
"Ava loves to play with others, is very social and friendly. Hugs friends."
"Excellent verbal skills" (yes, our ears are painfully aware of this!)
"Follows rules, a few times has challenged them by going to side of the room or not sitting where asked."
"Usually great during group time, sometimes needs reminder to not talk to friends. Once refused to sit where asked." (ONCE?)
"Ava is doing excellent in all areas and is such a nice girl."
This additional comment made me laugh out loud during this recent conference:
"Ava is very peaceful."
Ahh...well, I guess it's a good thing she acts like a completely different child at school than she does at home.
Miss Mary also commented on how much Ava loves books - she said she will sit in the book corner and look at books and most of the other kids do not do this on their own. That's my girl - I love that one! She also got high marks on drawing, large muscle skills and small muscle skills. "Ava excels in all areas! She is a joy to have at school!"
Here is the self-portrait Ava drew in the fall:
(it is labeled arms, pretty dress, and shoes)
And the one from the spring:
(it is labeled "that's me")
And then she asked if she could draw Reese too:
(it is labeled "that's my baby sister walking")
They also asked her some questions and recorded her answers. One of them was:
These are my friends at school...
"Alexandra, Grace, Ava S., Queen, and the other one in that room, Ryan, Alex, you (points to Miss Mary), Miss Joni, me, I like myself."
Ms. Mary said she got such a big kick out of that because in all her years of teaching, she never had a kid respond that they liked themself. She said "Good for her - look how self-confident she is!" Yep, that's our Ava.